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Sunday, May 22, 2005

to love someone unconditionally is not as easy as u think..
its not bout just telling tt someone u love him, u promise to be with him forever, u wanna spend the rest of your life with him..blah blah blah..
no, it isn't..tt is just the misconception of love..
becoz loving someone is alot more than just saying it out in letters. words or sentences..
its not about proclaiming about how much you love someone..
but, it is more about the actions and gestures you do for tt someone that shows how much you love someone ..

as you can see..speaking about love to someone is just a thought tt your mind transmits through your nervous system to your mouth just so to be said..
it doesn't mean you love tt someone..
it means, you desire to have tt someone..just so to satisfy your desires..
the desire to be loved..the desire to have someone who loves you..the desire to have company..

so what is love??
love is about
-doing things for the person you love without wanting anything in return..
-unselfish giving..and more giving and more giving without wanting anything in return..
-just wanting to see the person you love happy..without thinking of ur own situation

loving someone doesnt mean tt person have to love u back..
its about you giving unconditionally for the benefit of the person you love..

so before u say u love someone..think twice..u may not be actually loving someone at all..but juz liking him/her..

adapted from the sermon i heard this morning at church..
and me juz crapping..

poured out my thoughts at
6:19 PM


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